This article has great advice for separated and divorced parents going into the holidays. When discussing a parent’s future relationship with a child, the author states, “that child, come adulthood, eventually develops a realistic appraisal of both parents and comes to appreciate the sacrifice of one in the face of the demands of the other. That adult child, no longer bound by parental control can then re-right the balance and chose to prioritize the parent that more facilitated peace.” This is something that DO Family Law expresses to our clients to try to keep them focused on the big picture.